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Being Positive in a World of Negativity

You may not know this, but the world of photography is not always a world of sunshine, rainbows, and pretty ponies.  There is a darker side.  A side where some photographers aim to hurt other photographers.  Some days the community of photographers can be so nasty that you just want to go and bury your head in the sand and forget about the world.  For a photographer that I admire, this is one of those days.  I won’t name any names, but I truly feel for him today.

As photographers our job is to create, to capture, and to captivate.  But it seems as though a large portion of photographers aim to do just the opposite.  This photographer that I admire has created something.  Something that he believes can help people.  A very admirable quest if you ask me.  But this thing he’s created requires a change in the industry.  A change that “oldschoolers” (yes I made that word up, they’re just words, they don’t control me) aren’t happy about because it threatens the way they do business.

Philippians 4:8

8Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. (KJV)

Which brings me to my point.  There is no need to be negative.  There is no need to be afraid of change.  And there is certainly no need to speak ill of someone who’s goal is to help others.  You don’t have to agree with what they’ve said, written, or done, but to try and tear them down because you don’t agree is simply wrong.  I pray that Megan and I NEVER assume the position of jerk just because we see the world differently than someone else.

Stepping Out and Stepping Up

Megan and I have recently been working on getting out of our comfort zone to be more daring and take our personal and business lives to the next level.  Up until now, we have kept our spiritual lives separate from our professional lives.  It wasn’t until we started an amazing book called Prosper A 40 Day Prayer Journey to Seek God’s Will for Your Photography Business, that made us search our hearts, pray, and ultimately decide to include our love for our savior Jesus Christ in our professional lives.  This is a huge step for us as Christians and professional photographers.

Matthew 10:32 Whosoever therefore shall confess me before men, him will I confess also before my Father which is in heaven.

We are both excited and scared.  Excited because we know how awesome God is and how much we love Him.  Frightened to death because we don’t know how you will react.  We know that not everyone that visits our site will share the same views as we do.

We are Corlis and Megan Gray.  We are wedding photographers in love with Jesus and each other.  We have been blessed with the gift of photography and want nothing more than to serve the Lord by sharing our passion for Christ, each other, and weddings with you!

Matthew 5:16 Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.

Chicago Wedding Photographer | Japan Earthquake + Tsunami Relief

In my lifetime, which isn’t that long, I’ve been witness to many disasters, both natural and from our own doing.  I’ve watched the news broadcasts, like everyone else, without a second thought aside from the “normal” reaction of “that’s horrible!”, or “how sad!”.  It never really affected me emotionally like the disaster that has hit Japan.  Over the last week I’ve been awestruck by the devastation that has left so many family’s homeless and starving.

If asked, I wouldn’t be able to tell you how or why there’s been a sudden change in the way I’m viewing disaster.  Why the efforts of so many countries pulling together to help a distraught nation is now causing me to feel inadequate in my own efforts.  It could be the news coverage, endless videos, heart breaking images, or God saying “hey!  sitting on the couch watching isn’t helping anyone!”.  Regardless of the reason, that’s what I want to do.  Help.  But how?

Picture of a survivor crying amid the Japan earthquake rubble

Photograph from Asahi Shimbun, Reuters. A woman mourns the devastation of Natori, Miyagi Prefecture, in northern Japan on March 13. www.news.nationalgeographic.com

  Picture of rescue workers searching for Japan earthquake victims

Photograph from Kyodo/Reuters.  Rescue workers search for Japan earthquake victims amid shattered houses in Tamura, Iwate Prefecture, on March 14.  www.news.nationalgeographic.com

 

This is where I’ve struggled.  I’m not a famous photographer.  I don’t make endless money.  I’m not Mike Colon or Steve McCurry.  As a matter of fact, like most average Americans I struggle to make ends meet in a suffering economy.  I do what I can just to make sure my family has basic necessities.  Yet still I can’t help but think that just having that much is more than our Japanese counter parts.

Picking the right charity/organization/relief effort is a pretty daunting decision.  Theres the Red Cross, Shelter Box, International Medical Corps, Global Giving, Convoy of Hope, and the list goes on and on.  I came to the conclusion that I needed to help the most individuals I could, with what little I had to offer.  So starting immediately, Corlis Gray Photography will be donating 20% of every penny earned to the disaster relief efforts in Japan.  This money will go towards buying Shelter Box’s that will be sent to family’s in Japan who are without food, shelter, and water.  These box’s contain a disaster relief tent that can house up to a family of 10.  A children’s pack containing drawing books, crayons and pens. For children who have lost most, if not all,their possessions, these small gifts are treasured.  A range of other survival equipment including thermal blankets and insulated ground sheets, essential in areas where temperatures plummet at nightfall. Where malaria is prevalent mosquito nets are supplied, as well a life saving means of water purification. Water supplies often become contaminated after a major disaster, as infrastructure and sanitation systems are destroyed, this presents a secondary but no less dangerous threat to survivors than the initial disaster itself.  A basic tool kit containing a hammer, axe, saw, trenching shovel, hoe head, pliers and wire cutters enables people to improve their immediate environment, by chopping firewood or digging a latrine, for example.  Key items are either a wood burning or multi-fuel stove. The multi-fuel stove can burn anything from diesel to old paint. Some boxes also contain our specially designed wood burning Frontier Stove, pictured below. This provides the heart of the new home where water is boiled, food is cooked and families congregate. In addition, there are pans, utensils, bowls, mugs and water storage containers.  And a several month supply of food.  More information about the Shelter Box can be found here: http://www.shelterboxusa.org/about.php?page=9

Even if your not in the market for pictures.  I strongly urge you to give.  Every little bit helps.  Shelter Box accepts any size donation and will provide you with a box number that can be tracked so you can see where the good you are doing is going.

The future of the entire human race depends solely on our capacity to love one another regardless of race, color, religion, or status.  I personally wouldn’t let my children, mother, or anyone else I could help, go without a place to stay or food to eat.  So there is no reason to let someone else’s loved ones do the same.  We as a country are blessed beyond belief and it is because of that, that we are obligated to help those who are less fortunate when we can.

Itty Bitties of ’09

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It was a warm and breezy day. The sun was shining, the air was sweet with the aromas of spring. I couldn’t help but pack up my gear and head to the Naperville Riverwalk. As I strolled along the DuPage River, under antique wooden bridges reminiscent of days long past, I couldn’t help but notice that spring was in the air. Not in the sense that birds were chirping and the trees were a bloom, while those things were very present. More so, there were literally hundreds of baby bumps of all different shapes and sizes adhering to glowing mommies enjoying the first signs of natures yearly rebirth.

This got me thinking of all of the wonderful little ones, which I lovingly refer to as itty bitties, I had the privilege of capturing in ’09. So I compiled a few of my favorites, kind of a “year in review” of sorts. I hope you enjoy it:D

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